Has Finn got a twin? (General)

Not to me.
Steffy tried what she could to support Finn.
She loves him, but he has way too unrealistic expectations, considering the dark history both women have.

Finn KNOWS he can't have both of them in his life.
He knew it all along, BEFORE he married Steffy. While Steffy proceed with the marriage, because he made her believe Sheila won't be a factor in their family life.
Finn is not innocent at all.

Steffy is a dictator and bully. She treats Finn like garbage. It is how she treats everyone
I think Finn is fairly innocent. Steffy could have been more understanding with Finn instead of yelling orders of what he can and cannot do JMO

Not to me.
Steffy tried what she could to support Finn.
She loves him, but he has way too unrealistic expectations, considering the dark history both women have.

Finn KNOWS he can't have both of them in his life.
He knew it all along, BEFORE he married Steffy. While Steffy proceed with the marriage, because he made her believe Sheila won't be a factor in their family life.
Finn is not innocent at all.

How could Finn know it before he married Steffy when he didn't even know who his birth mother was until after the wedding ceremony?

It's Steffy who has dictated Finn's actions and feelings to him from the very beginning. Steffy knew before she married Finn that one of his dreams has always been to find his birth mother.

Exactly.He lied to Steffy, blindsided her and betrayed her, in the process endangered her and the kids.Steffy has ground for annulement in real life

Finn is free to believe in anything he wants.
If he needs to believe Sheila, without questioning her, it's HIS choice and mainly HIS responsibility.
But he has no right to expect others to believe Sheila too. Especially her victims from the past.
Steffy is one of those victims.

Finn hasn’t tried to make Steffy believe anything. On the other hand, Steffy bellows at Finn as to what he can feel or do. She shows no understanding of how Finn feels. She orders him to feel the way she wants. Finn has not tried to make Steffy accept Sheila but Steffy expects him to obey her

I agree with you @Sammy
Finn has been totally honest with Steffy about his conflicting feelings.
Beyond that, I am not sure what he is supposed to do.
He said that he doesn't understand it and my guess is, he is looking for a way to make it make sense.
I believe he can see two sides in Sheila where those who loathe her (with legitimate reason) only see the psychotic side.

Sheila saved Kelly on Finn's watch. She also kept her word and stayed away from Finn and his family.
She was doing her job when Kelly was brought to her place of business and she spoke to her.
She did not touch her in any way.
Steffy blew that whole situation out of proportion and was acting a bit 'unhinged'.

He doesn't have a twin, he is just a human doctor who wants to see the good in people, even crazy people like Sheila. LOL

That's how I see it too. It seems Finn just needs to be Steffys puppet to do and say exactly what she wants. He isn't even allowed to be human. He's not forcing Sheila on Steffy. He simply wants to have a relationship with her himself. As long as he keeps her out of Steffys life I don't see what's wrong with that. If Steffys brother deserves a chance after everything he did then so does Sheila and Finn is giving it to her. Big deal. If Steffy doesn't like it she's free to leave but her son will always be Sheila's grandson. There's literally nothing she can do about that.

Finn is free to believe in anything he wants.
If he needs to believe Sheila, without questioning her, it's HIS choice and mainly HIS responsibility.
But he has no right to expect others to believe Sheila too. Especially her victims from the past.
Steffy is one of those victims.

Finn hasn’t tried to make Steffy believe anything. On the other hand, Steffy bellows at Finn as to what he can feel or do. She shows no understanding of how Finn feels. She orders him to feel the way she wants. Finn has not tried to make Steffy accept Sheila but Steffy expects him to obey her

I agree with you @Sammy
Finn has been totally honest with Steffy about his conflicting feelings.
Beyond that, I am not sure what he is supposed to do.
He said that he doesn't understand it and my guess is, he is looking for a way to make it make sense.
I believe he can see two sides in Sheila where those who loathe her (with legitimate reason) only see the psychotic side.

Sheila saved Kelly on Finn's watch. She also kept her word and stayed away from Finn and his family.
She was doing her job when Kelly was brought to her place of business and she spoke to her.
She did not touch her in any way.
Steffy blew that whole situation out of proportion and was acting a bit 'unhinged'.

He doesn't have a twin, he is just a human doctor who wants to see the good in people, even crazy people like Sheila. LOL

Thank you
Excellent post

Finn is free to believe in anything he wants.
If he needs to believe Sheila, without questioning her, it's HIS choice and mainly HIS responsibility.
But he has no right to expect others to believe Sheila too. Especially her victims from the past.
Steffy is one of those victims.

Finn hasn’t tried to make Steffy believe anything. On the other hand, Steffy bellows at Finn as to what he can feel or do. She shows no understanding of how Finn feels. She orders him to feel the way she wants. Finn has not tried to make Steffy accept Sheila but Steffy expects him to obey her

I agree with you @Sammy
Finn has been totally honest with Steffy about his conflicting feelings.
Beyond that, I am not sure what he is supposed to do.
He said that he doesn't understand it and my guess is, he is looking for a way to make it make sense.
I believe he can see two sides in Sheila where those who loathe her (with legitimate reason) only see the psychotic side.

Sheila saved Kelly on Finn's watch. She also kept her word and stayed away from Finn and his family.
She was doing her job when Kelly was brought to her place of business and she spoke to her.
She did not touch her in any way.
Steffy blew that whole situation out of proportion and was acting a bit 'unhinged'.

He doesn't have a twin, he is just a human doctor who wants to see the good in people, even crazy people like Sheila. LOL

She didn't stay away. She was stalking Finn the day Kelly almost drowned. She showed up at the cliff house to see Finn when she thought Steffy was still staying at Eric's. Instead of just seating Kelly and her friends at the restaurant Sheila purposely started a conversation with Kelly and asked if she remembered her. Now Steffy will have to deal with knowing a stranger came in her house to kill her and her kids because of what Sheila did to her years ago. How is Steffy ever going to feel safe after that? Finn may be able to get over what Sheila did to them but Steffy can't so he will have to decide what is more important to him, his egg donor mother that didn't give a damn about him until he married into the Forrester family or his wife and family life.

Actually we never had a real Dr Finnegan. His character was always kind of wishy-washy, whatever was needed for the show at the moment. From the moment Sheila turned up at the wedding Sinn were doomed.
Finn was allowed his hero moments, fighting Sheila when she held him captive or when he was the only one able to save Eric, but the zero moments became more and more.
Now he will obviously sacrifice his marriage for being with Sheila.

Yes, we have known the real Finn. Finn is a protector. He loves fiercely his closed ones and would do anything for them, INCLUDING, take a bullet for them. So yes, seeing Finn potentially sacrificing his most valued relationships for Sheila, the psycho, who shot him and left him to die, is making him quite unrecognizable.

I actually see the things he did to protect Steffy as part of the reason why Finn wants to believe Sheila has changed. He is protective of people and he truly believes Sheila has changed, citing saving Kelly and trying to save them from Sugar. I mean hardened criminals in real life are sometimes released from prison if they think they are truly reformed. Maybe Finn believes that?

Thank you. I agree

Thanks Sammy, it’s just hard for me to understand why Finn is being painted as crazy or bad for being compassionate. The guy is a doctor, he’s suppose to care for people.

It's not hard at all. Everyone is supposed to bow to the great princess Steffy. Whoever doesn't deserves the worst punishment.

That is exactly right! It’s always the world according to Steffy! Finn has had no voice on any subject but this may be something he’ll stand for! It’ll take about 5 mins for Steffy to run to Liam and maybe Finn will see that she was a willing participant all along not a victim of Liam’s indecision.

Actually we never had a real Dr Finnegan. His character was always kind of wishy-washy, whatever was needed for the show at the moment. From the moment Sheila turned up at the wedding Sinn were doomed.
Finn was allowed his hero moments, fighting Sheila when she held him captive or when he was the only one able to save Eric, but the zero moments became more and more.
Now he will obviously sacrifice his marriage for being with Sheila.

Yes, we have known the real Finn. Finn is a protector. He loves fiercely his closed ones and would do anything for them, INCLUDING, take a bullet for them. So yes, seeing Finn potentially sacrificing his most valued relationships for Sheila, the psycho, who shot him and left him to die, is making him quite unrecognizable.

I actually see the things he did to protect Steffy as part of the reason why Finn wants to believe Sheila has changed. He is protective of people and he truly believes Sheila has changed, citing saving Kelly and trying to save them from Sugar. I mean hardened criminals in real life are sometimes released from prison if they think they are truly reformed. Maybe Finn believes that?

Finn should not believe that. It is foolish to do so. He should always have his guard up when it comes to Sheila. Sheila has been in and out of prison and continued to commit crimes. Also, Sheila has never paid for actually shooting Finn and Steffy and hold Finn hostage. She faked her death and then blackmailed them in order to escape justice.

When it comes to saving Kelly—she was stalking them, that's how she was put in that position. Finn should also be more upset that his negligence led to a situation where the Forresters would have to be grateful to someone who terrorized them for decades. Sugar came back to pull a revenge on Sheila should be proof of the type of disaster Sheila leaves her way, and if Sheila had warned people ahead of time, then it would be more believable.

All in all, Finn believing Sheila can change will come back to bite him. They are sacrificing Finn's character for Sheila and I'm disgusted. You never use victims to redeem villains.

I understand your points but look at all the characters on this show who have committed crimes and been forgiven or even justified? Shelia has been terrible for sure, but let’s also be honest in she has never had anyone really care for her. Now she has both Finn and Deacon, maybe love can change even the worst people IF they truly want to change. Finn may get burned, but he is still doing what his conscience is guiding and I admire that goodness in him.

Finn is a good kind-hearted man, but he needs to be written with having limitations. Sheila cannot and should not be able to come back from shooting him, his wife and leaving him to die in a pile of garbage and almost leaving his son an orphan, and then hold him hostage and attempting to kill Li. As a victim of Sheila's, Finn should be allowed to hold a lifetime grudge against her, LIKE ALL her victims have. What we are witnessing here (ever since Finn hugged her in prison) is character regression.

Or character recreation, depending on how you look at it.

But Sheila meant to shoot Steffy. For the sole reason that she wanted to call 911 for her dying husband.
Sheila did not want to kill Finn but the fact that he lay dying on the garbage did not move her heart either.
Every real mother would have saved he child before she saved herself. Not Sheila.

Actually we never had a real Dr Finnegan. His character was always kind of wishy-washy, whatever was needed for the show at the moment. From the moment Sheila turned up at the wedding Sinn were doomed.
Finn was allowed his hero moments, fighting Sheila when she held him captive or when he was the only one able to save Eric, but the zero moments became more and more.
Now he will obviously sacrifice his marriage for being with Sheila.

Yes, we have known the real Finn. Finn is a protector. He loves fiercely his closed ones and would do anything for them, INCLUDING, take a bullet for them. So yes, seeing Finn potentially sacrificing his most valued relationships for Sheila, the psycho, who shot him and left him to die, is making him quite unrecognizable.

I actually see the things he did to protect Steffy as part of the reason why Finn wants to believe Sheila has changed. He is protective of people and he truly believes Sheila has changed, citing saving Kelly and trying to save them from Sugar. I mean hardened criminals in real life are sometimes released from prison if they think they are truly reformed. Maybe Finn believes that?

Finn should not believe that. It is foolish to do so. He should always have his guard up when it comes to Sheila. Sheila has been in and out of prison and continued to commit crimes. Also, Sheila has never paid for actually shooting Finn and Steffy and hold Finn hostage. She faked her death and then blackmailed them in order to escape justice.

When it comes to saving Kelly—she was stalking them, that's how she was put in that position. Finn should also be more upset that his negligence led to a situation where the Forresters would have to be grateful to someone who terrorized them for decades. Sugar came back to pull a revenge on Sheila should be proof of the type of disaster Sheila leaves her way, and if Sheila had warned people ahead of time, then it would be more believable.

All in all, Finn believing Sheila can change will come back to bite him. They are sacrificing Finn's character for Sheila and I'm disgusted. You never use victims to redeem villains.

I understand your points but look at all the characters on this show who have committed crimes and been forgiven or even justified? Shelia has been terrible for sure, but let’s also be honest in she has never had anyone really care for her. Now she has both Finn and Deacon, maybe love can change even the worst people IF they truly want to change. Finn may get burned, but he is still doing what his conscience is guiding and I admire that goodness in him.

I admire Finn's compassion, too, and I find it a heck of a lot more believable that Bill forgiving Taylor. Sheila cicn't mean to shoot Finn, Taylor meant to kill Bill. Sheila is Finn's birth mother, Taylor has no relationship with Bill. She wasn't even his friend. She tried to kill him out of pure hatred, for something she thought he did that, in reality, he didn't do at all.

Yes, viewers have been guided by writers to let many things go in the past based on the character’s standing on the show , or simply their likability. Finn’s connection with Sheila is real and he acknowledges it’s surprising, but he feels it none the less , and he shouldn’t be demonized for it.

Actually we never had a real Dr Finnegan. His character was always kind of wishy-washy, whatever was needed for the show at the moment. From the moment Sheila turned up at the wedding Sinn were doomed.
Finn was allowed his hero moments, fighting Sheila when she held him captive or when he was the only one able to save Eric, but the zero moments became more and more.
Now he will obviously sacrifice his marriage for being with Sheila.

Yes, we have known the real Finn. Finn is a protector. He loves fiercely his closed ones and would do anything for them, INCLUDING, take a bullet for them. So yes, seeing Finn potentially sacrificing his most valued relationships for Sheila, the psycho, who shot him and left him to die, is making him quite unrecognizable.

I actually see the things he did to protect Steffy as part of the reason why Finn wants to believe Sheila has changed. He is protective of people and he truly believes Sheila has changed, citing saving Kelly and trying to save them from Sugar. I mean hardened criminals in real life are sometimes released from prison if they think they are truly reformed. Maybe Finn believes that?

Finn should not believe that. It is foolish to do so. He should always have his guard up when it comes to Sheila. Sheila has been in and out of prison and continued to commit crimes. Also, Sheila has never paid for actually shooting Finn and Steffy and hold Finn hostage. She faked her death and then blackmailed them in order to escape justice.

When it comes to saving Kelly—she was stalking them, that's how she was put in that position. Finn should also be more upset that his negligence led to a situation where the Forresters would have to be grateful to someone who terrorized them for decades. Sugar came back to pull a revenge on Sheila should be proof of the type of disaster Sheila leaves her way, and if Sheila had warned people ahead of time, then it would be more believable.

All in all, Finn believing Sheila can change will come back to bite him. They are sacrificing Finn's character for Sheila and I'm disgusted. You never use victims to redeem villains.

I understand your points but look at all the characters on this show who have committed crimes and been forgiven or even justified? Shelia has been terrible for sure, but let’s also be honest in she has never had anyone really care for her. Now she has both Finn and Deacon, maybe love can change even the worst people IF they truly want to change. Finn may get burned, but he is still doing what his conscience is guiding and I admire that goodness in him.

I admire Finn's compassion, too, and I find it a heck of a lot more believable that Bill forgiving Taylor. Sheila cicn't mean to shoot Finn, Taylor meant to kill Bill. Sheila is Finn's birth mother, Taylor has no relationship with Bill. She wasn't even his friend. She tried to kill him out of pure hatred, for something she thought he did that, in reality, he didn't do at all.

Sheila tried to kill Steffy because Steffy was going to out her about the champagne switch, hardly a valid reason for murder. Sheila may not have intended to kill Finn but she definitely intended to kill his wife, thereby ending the life of his son's mother. She showed she cared more about herself than her son when she refused to allow a 911 call and walked away to let them bleed out on a pile of garbage. How Finn can find that forgivable and want her in his life I will never understand.